Question Why is selectExit callback firing when force select interactable that isn't already selected?

for some reason onSelectExit of an interactable is getting triggered even though I have on the same frame spawned the object and trying to force a socket to select it (I've tried the depecreted ForceSelect, SelectEnter, and ManualInteraction methods, all of them are triggering selectedExit callback when I make the selection happen)

[edit: this has stopped happening, not sure why]