URP weird shadow / using many lights in urp

So currently I'm being stuck at this part of my project for 4 weeks now, I have imported URP for my project and some lights in my scene turned out to be like the image which it has weird square shadow. My scene is pretty big, is a 3 story mansion and yes it does have a lot of lights.

I tried to turn off some lights, yes it does work out, I even do stuff like if you close door all the lights in that room that you just closed will turn off, but the thing is not always the player remember to close the door or want to close the door, so I was wondering is there any way to use many lights without being worry of that shadow ?