Rigidbody broken and feels "lightweight"

Hello there,

I am trying to make this "bowling pin clearer". It has a rigidbody which is kinematic and should interact with the bowling pins and move them off. This mostly works, but there is almost always one or multiple pins left which just kind of fly over the clearer. I dont want to make it bigger since that looks weird. I think fixing this would also fix that the bowling pins feel very lightweight. Just like they are on moon gravity where this behaviour, like shown in the gif, would be expected. I already tried to change the weights around which doesnt seem to do anything.

 

Hi, doesn't it look like the clearer is pushing below the center of gravity, and the bottom slope, on the pin so the pushing makes it flip over? Have you tried a higher invisible collider on the clearer?