Player get stuck in collider

So i am making a game that in a certain point the box collider needs to be scaled to another size.
the problem is that sometimes the scale happens when my player stands in the planned collider (after the scale), which gives the result of the player being stuck inside.

I tried a lot of methods to try and detect whether the player is inside the collider or not and if he is inside, to disable that collider allowing him to get out and once he is out to enable it again.

Up until now, none worked. I tried doing it through RayCast and by knowing how many times it touched a collider along the way from the player and the collider's center and I tried through logic, assuming that if the player is inside the collider, so the distance from the center to the player is smaller than the box's size/2 (its a box - a square).

Any help please? Once i solve that problem the game is almost ready to go in terms of scripting.

 

hello, change your code design like, Scale the collider after you have the crossed the collider to be scaled.
use update() to control the player, LateUpdate() to handle the collider scaling

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