Unity Multiplayer how can use vds or vps for matchmaker host ?

i need to know how can make matchmaker dedicated server on my own vds ?
i try to use server build in linux and windows from build but i dont know how can i config that i lock at tow tutorial
but both cant help me
1:
https://noobtuts.com/unity/unet-server-hosting
2:

i need server like this mm.unet.unity3d.com
i dnot know how config that

 

The matchmaker for mm.unet.unity3d.com is for the deprecated Unity Multiplayer Service which a couple years ago was announced it would at some point be shut down. Unet itself is also deprecated. You'll have to write your own match maker server or use an alternative networking API / service which includes the functionality.

 

I create my own mm with php for myself
And start game lan woth port and ip
And also create server list for game if server not responding or game start remove server i try to complete
Thq for your help