Getting object aligned in the hands (controller)

At this moment i am working with SteamVR in combination with WMR and Microsoft controllers.
Many things doesnt work like it should be, but made some work arounds.

The major question, and I dont think its wmr related, how do i align the controller with the hands. When i use a ray cast for teleporting (self made) i need to lower the angle much more as it should be.
ALso when i grab an object using the interactable script, package item and the item spawner the objects in the hand look to have a 45 degree offset. I added a picture for showing the problem.


https://ibb.co/ySysVtJ

- Thinks i tryed already is the offsetobject in the hierachy on the hand.
- Give the prefab a rotation already

Thanks in advance